When it comes to sex and the “moment after,” perhaps the single most frequently asked question by men is, “Uh . . . did you come?” To many guys, the female orgasm is a mystery, a
conundrum: a chimera so intangible and elusive that they often fail to recognize it when it's happening right before their very eyes.
So what are the visible signs of arousal? How can you tell when she's close to orgasm? Throughout the ages wise men have reflected upon this question.
These are the signs of female arousal
She is panting and her voice is shaking uncontrollably.
She closes her eyes and her nostrils are widened and she is unable to speak.
She is staring at the man.
Her ears turn red and her face is flushing, but the tip of her tongue turns slightly colder.
Her hands are hot and her abdomen warm, and at the same time her language becomes almost unintelligible.
Her expression looks as though she is bewitched, her body is soft as jelly, and her limbs are droopy.
The saliva under her tongue has been sucked dry and her body is pressing against the man.
The pulses of her vulva become noticeable and her secretions are flowing.
Ninety Seconds Away
When the lights are on you can see there will be the darkening in colour and deepening in luster of her inner labia, as well as the retraction of the clitoral head into its hood—both are signs that she's within ninety seconds of reaching climax. Even in the dark, it's not hard to observe when the glans has retracted; focus on feeling the head when it's fully protruded and erect, and you'll easily be able to recognize its absence.
Key terms
LABIA- The labia are part of the female genitalia; they are the major externally visible portions of the vulva
CLITORIAL HEAD -The clitoral head is a fold of skin that surrounds and protects the glans of the clitoris.
